• Dasnap@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Across countries, social borders, faiths, genders, ethnicities, age groups, sexual harassment seems to crop up when the opportunity presents itself.

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    Even if it wasn’t commonplace, ads like this keep us vigilant and (assuming they can read) should deter the predatory types.

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      British Transport Police (BTP) received 421 reports of harassment between April and October, up from 259 over the same period in 2019.

      I have no idea how to put these numbers or that percentage into perspective. Of course, even one case is one too much, I just don’t know what’s the threshold where people can feel safe or how it compares to just walking on the street or whatnot.

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        Male so my view is at best a guess.

        But I imagine being harrased on a moving and often crowded train where you limited option to remove yourself from the event. While also facing fear the passengers will judge you rather then the harrassor.

        Likely means any event is more stressful.

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        I think less than one case is probably the goal.

        I view that statistic in reality as 6 people, I’m assuming mostly women, getting sexually harassed every day, creating a culture of harassment that even if you don’t get harassed that day, you know that half a dozen other people just like you were sexually harassed that day, and yesterday, and tomorrow.

        By putting up that sign of awareness, hopefully fewer people will view reporting sexual harassment or mentioning it at all as taboo so that everyone can help push the number back down and further down past prepandemic levels.

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        I strongly suspect it’s underreported as well. Speak to enough women and you hear distressingly familiar stories about public harassment. I think attitudes have improved somewhat since my mum’s days (avoiding being grouped on the train to school was apparently just one of those things) but still has a long way to go.

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    I’d much rather see this than any of the commercial adverts.

    It is useful information too. Most people won’t interrupt or help, and partly because they are not sure how. I saw this recently and it did make me think, if I did see something happening I have a better idea of how I can help.

    It also creates an environment where you cannot justify not acting because you don’t think you can help, and that we as a society are saying it is not acceptable. If one person challenges harassment that would not have done so before seeing that, I’d count it as a success.

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    7 months ago

    Counterquestion: How much sexual harrasment do you think is ok before these kinds of ads are justified?

    And another one: What would you replace these ads with?

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      To be honest, this is one of those ads that are actually useful. When I was riding the underground (different city than London), most of the ads were either some inane webshop crap, or “sell your blood plasma for 600 EUR a month”.

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    I think so, yes. I had to step in when I saw a small group of men who appeared in their mid/late 20’s harassing a teenage girl at Victoria fairly recently. Ads like this not only make it clear that it’s unacceptable but it also empowers bystanders to get involved.

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    Without revealing too much, my mother was a women’s rights activist for a short while when I was younger (in the mid-90s).

    She was abused by a priest within the Asian community, and was told (like many women before her) to keep quiet, since the norm was to blame the woman for being abused. My mother said fuck that, and spoke up. She was on every major TV station giving interviews, she was on Kilroy twice (was a very popular talk show here in the UK), shook hands with Princess Diana, etc.

    The reason I bring that up, is due to one time when she would go on a local radio station and provide her phone number live on air, telling women to contact her, that she would go through the pranks and spam if there was the chance of victims coming through.
    The amount of women experiencing every day harassment was something that I just cannot forget, as a young man knowing the extent of what women go through in regards to daily harassment really helped shape my understanding. It is a real issue that I believe a lot of men are simply unaware of as nothing of that sort happens to us. I’ve met countless women who have told me they are afraid to wear dresses that are shorter than down to their ankles, in fear of being groped. In 2024 this shouldn’t be a thing but here we are.

    These signs are, unfortunately, needed to raise some awareness. It’s not an issue that faces me directly, but man it definitely is an issue for a lot of women out there. Getting MUCH better, however still something that needs to be acknowledged imho.