Obviously I can understand why mysoginists are hated upon, As their belief is all women are trash or men are superior etc. But why are incels also generally hated upon? They are lacking in a way that makes them unable to gey in a relationship, but that shouldn’t necessarily mean they are mysoginists, right?

What am I missing here? I haven’t ever had a relationship with a woman, but I don’t hate all women either. I just consider myself unlucky. Does that make me an incel?

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    Is it an awful way to go through life? Yes. Does it lower your risk to go through life this way? Also yes. Sorry, but I’m not risking my kid’s innocence to be politically correct.

    Not all men, but enough men to be wary of all men.

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      I can’t believe what I’m reading in this thread.

      You are judging half of the population on their physical makeup.

      This makes me sick.

      Fuck trying to be better than those who have come before us. Fuck trying to build a better future.

      I hope our paths never cross.

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        I agree with you. This sort of blatant bigotry has to be a right wing psyop to split the left or something. No way that “liberal” minded people could think it’s rational to discriminate against half the population

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          Lmao

          You’re really missing the point here and getting offended over reality for half the population.

          Enough men are a danger to women and children that it forces women to be wary of all men. Which is the smart and right thing to do.

          If you’re in a room with 100 people and you know 10 of them are extremely violent with extremely short fuses that can be triggered by anything from a casual look to an uninvited ‘hello’’, but you don’t know which 10 it is, how are you going to socially navigate that room? Are you going to pretend like everyone in that room is a friend and make strong eye contact with everyone saying hello? Or are you going to tread lightly?

          That’s the reality women face with men every day.

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            I know plenty of people who make this same argument for why whites can’t trust blacks. Those people are called racists. People who make the argument you’re making are called sexists.

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              ^false equivalency. Sexists hate men (or women) on principle. That’s not what this concept is. You’d know that if you paid attention just a little bit

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                Treating someone negatively or positively on the basis of their sex is sexism.

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                    Treating someone differently on the basis of sex is sexism. Treating someone differently on the basis of race is racism. This isn’t hard