• Dyskolos@lemmy.zip
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    8 months ago

    Well… One survivor once told me her husband demanded a daily bj (sometimes two). Which took this pathetic weakling a solid hour of constant sucking and tugging. Oh and she should kneel before him, of course. While he watched soccer. I’d find that pretty exhausting on top of being utterly disgusting.

    Short story even shorter: you never know.

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      8 months ago

      I…I just don’t even think that sounds appealing at all. If I had an SO that wanted to give me a BJ every single day I would say thank you for offering, but that’s just too much.

      First of all, skin is sensitive so that is quickly going to lead to some irritation, especially if it takes you a fucking hour to cum. Second of all, it is better to give than to receive. I’m trying to participate too, I don’t want to feel useless. More than half the fun is making my partner feel good/valued. If I lost that element it would just kill my sex drive quickly.

      I don’t know why this comment made me get all in my feelings, but it really made me pissed off. Like if it is consensual whatever you do you, I’m not here to kink-shame. But who the fuck are you to make someone suck your dick every single day as a chore. What a pathetic fucking loser. How do people like that exist…I just don’t even get it.