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loli yuri is the best
loli yuri is the best
I’ve read most of it so far. it’s lovely. there isn’t anything directly about sexuality but it’s still a good introduction to youthlib
sturgen’s law applies to instances and instance admins. I suspect there will be growing pains as the initial group of servers are set up and we find out which have shit admins though experience
burggit is a fine instance, and you don’t really wanna talk to anyone who would defed with you anyways. don’t sweat it and let .world be a shithole in peace. their antics will catch up to them in the long term
It makes me sad since i loved to think that lemmy could be a smaller more compact community alternative to reddit but honestly its really not.
functionally, it is. we’re having this convo across two different servers already. it’s just that the early adopters are kinda assholes to people like us. it appears that the fediverse will end up divided into groups along ideological battle lines, and that unless you’re a single user instance self-admin you’ll want 2 or 3 accounts to get the full picture. on the other hand, it means we have less immediate visibility to haters and presumptivly therefore less harassment than someplace like twitter, where people who hate each other share one big box (tell me again why we ever thought that was a good idea?)
in other words, “fuck the haters I’ma go to an instance that respects me” is the correct response and we’ll continue on without their help
yeah, I imagine that reporting probably works better here than on corpo monosites. on those piles of crap they don’t hire enough mods and the reports are handled by the AI too, so if it slips through the upload spam filter downvoting is your only option.
https://www.staygrounded.online/p/the-trust-and-safety-dance https://www.staygrounded.online/p/a-billion-nazis-at-the-table
I feel you. I’ve been internet harassed badly and I no longer feel welcome in a place other than like this
indeed. honestly it’s best to meet people in spaces like this and then either hope they live locally or move in with them across hundreds or thousands of miles.
linux users are of course the first to move to something like this, and the /r/fuckcars community is as well now a bit. also let’s be honest, fuck cars. and fuck windows.
also it’s not like rejecting us has prevented bad faith grooming accusations. arguably it’s made LGBTQ+ kids more vulnerable by robbing us of rhetoric to combat it