Personally, for me it’s the idea that just because you don’t experience something (dysphoria, or being a gender other than what society expects of you) that doesn’t mean those experiences aren’t valid.
I get sooo tired of the response “I just don’t understand! I love being my AGAB! Why can’t you just get over it?”
I personally don’t think i understand joy at all lol
As a “cis” guy I honestly envy people who know who they are and live that life. I don’t know “what” I am at all, all I know is I don’t seem to belong anywhere lol