Personally, for me it’s the idea that just because you don’t experience something (dysphoria, or being a gender other than what society expects of you) that doesn’t mean those experiences aren’t valid.
I get sooo tired of the response “I just don’t understand! I love being my AGAB! Why can’t you just get over it?”
CISDad here: That there are as many genders as people. That a person’s expression of gender is their own and isn’t for us to police.
I’m sorry the dipshits are sapping your energy. I hope you find more supportive spaces.
Thanks for your input! :)