Hello everyone! First of all, I’d like to say thank you to every one of you for your support! Our community is about to be the first user-made one to reach 1K users/week on this instance. And our friends over at Ask Lemmy and Mildly Infuriating are following very closely, which is just as amazing!

We’re all working together to establish healthy communities and a friendly atmosphere here. And over at !NoStupidQuestions, we believe that all our members should have a say in what we do & how we do it.

Do you see anything wrong with our rules? Would you like anything removed and/or added? Do you think Rule 6 is useful and good for the community? Do you want a discord server or a matrix chat room?

Please feel free to ask any questions you might have & share your suggestions and ideas!

With Love,

!NoStupidQuestions Mod Team

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    I’m not on lemmy.world, but I’d just like to say that im always sad when I see communities using Discord for communication. It’s the exact opposite of lemmy. And if one considers the current Reddit measures as harsh, they are pretty soft compared to Discords stance on such matters. Information that goes in there is basically lost. So go the entire way with Matrix.

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    I don’t think removing hateful people will be as big of an issue as it was on reddit though, since the mod log is public by default, and it’s more likely they’ll just be all driven back into a defederated hiding place somewhere.

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        It’s a very delicate balance to mod, you want people to feel free to express their different opinions without getting their comments instantly removed, but you also want to keep the assholes who only comes to upset people out (a small minority, for sure, but they should not feel welcome to spew their venom everywhere).

        I’d say rules are ultimately just guidelines, but you should always be flexible, but fair with the rules, and then people will stay here.

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    Personally I would address the wording around rule 5. As it stands, it basically just sounds like the lead mod is going “I reserve the right to control the political climate of this community.”

    I think if you simply elaborated a little more in the description of the rule, and possibly provided examples, it would help allay these fears.

    Let’s get off on a good, professional footing that inspires seriousness and trust in our userbase, though, instead of a funnier one that encourages goofing off and trolling.

    edit: added a couple words

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      Thank you for the suggestion! We’ll take this into consideration and talk about it soon, and I’ll be sure to let you know when/if it’s addressed. Happy fediversing!

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    I would suggest an FAQ for newbies, since so many are flooding in (like me). Too big a burden for a few sysadmins or mods, so I would suggest you crowd-source it. If Lemmy has wiki-like capabilities, you could use those. Or as a last resort, you could use the actual en.wikipedia.org. This is my first day here, and I’ve read tons but I feel as though I’m lost and without a map.

  • Ulu-Mulu-no-die@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Congratz!! Amazing to see this growth.

    Rules look fine to me, I also appreciate a lot that you’re asking the community <3

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    I think rule 7 needs to be updated a little bit; that is how Reddit started banning people for hating on Nazis

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      The wording can be modified a bit. Saying “any group or any of our members in ANY way” gives it a rather broad meaning, which I can see could be maliciously interpreted if somebody wanted to. We could just define the banned behavior in clearer words instead. Thanks for the suggestion.

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          No, I mean it will be hard to clearly define what is allowed and what not. Yes, we don’t want Nazis. But the defintion of what a Nazi is, is not a precise thing.

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            I don’t think the definition has to be limited to one thing. We just went with a broader definition that restrict certain type of behavior mainly seen in those kind of people, and made it known that they are exempt from all rights(=will be banned) in this community.

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    1 year ago

    Stupid question, couldn’t resist. On Jerboa, I am not seeing the link to the rules. Gonna look around a bit more.

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    The rule list could use some formatting so they are scannable. Right now every rule is one long text paragraph. If the central words or short summary head were bold it’d be much better UI and UX wise.

    It may be worth it to consider or discuss whether certain types of questions that have more fitting alternative communities should be posted there and not here. (General open questions may be better fit on asklemmy. Questions that are not “stupid” either through lack of knowledge or lack of context knowledge or risk of being looked down upon may not belong here.) Although moderating those could become difficult because they may not always be clearly one or the other.

    Asking for opinions is not a possibly considered stupid question unless it’s something people generally don’t have to ask about or shouldn’t ask about.

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    Improve the default themes. The dark theme is so hard on the eyes, it’s likely to turn away people whose first impression is that. It needs to have a more legible font choice against that background, as is it’s a strain on the eyes. The white theme is pretty good.

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    Rule 2. Get rid of and/or and just use or. https://www.grammarbook.com/blog/effective-writing/what-about-andor/. I don’t feel like finding the section in Strunk’s Elements of Style.

    Rule 8 suggested text: All comments must be relevant to their parent post or comment. Sometimes a comment can raise a topic worth discussing that isn’t related to the main post. It is easy enough to just collapse it if you aren’t interested.

    No Discord. I would go old school and put up an IRC server or use Matrix.

    Rule 6. I would require troll questions to be tagged instead of serious questions. Having to specify that you want to use the community for its intended purposes goes against the spirit of the idea that people can ask anything without fear of judgement.

    I would get rid of rule 7. Positive communities could sway these individuals away from that stuff. Any bad behavior is already covered by the no sea lioning and no harassment rules.

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      Rules 2 & 8 have been addressed along with some other updates to the draft.

      We already have a matrix chat room.

      On Rule 6, troll questions already require a tag, and they are only allowed on Friday.

      Rule 7, we’d still like to keep extra measures to protect our members, as “swaying away” often happens too late.

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        Wow, thanks!

        Rule 7, we’d still like to keep extra measures to protect our members, as “swaying away” often happens too late.

        “Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

        “Likewise, if you are a member, sympathiser or a resemblant of a group that is known to largely hate, mock, discriminate against, and/or want to take lives of any other group of people, and you were provably vocal about your hate, then you you will be banned on sight.”

        You would to ban the entire mod staff now, because you are a members of a group, No Stupid Questions moderators, that is advocating discriminating against another group of people, those that do the things in the aforementioned paragraph. Because you use ANY group of people, it applies. You are setting the mod team up in a situation to decide in groups and out groups.

        Am I making sense?

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          I disagree. The moderator team is not a group known to largely hate or discriminate against any group of people. It has a sole function of keeping the community subject to lemmy.world standards, and enforcing the rules of the community while keeping a friendly language all the way. That’s what it tries to be and that’s what it’s known as.

          Enforcing rules is not discrimination, and there’s no one group that breaks rules. As stated many times, lemmy.world is not a free speech platform in a complete sense.

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            discriminate against

            Except you are by having a rule that you can’t be a member of groups that the mod team thinks does.

            The wording any group against any other group is so vague it literally applies to anyone. I am a US military veteran. They used to discriminate against women and homosexuals. When I was in, we were actively hunting the Taliban to capture or kill them. So should I be banned? Should Ukrainian soldiers be banned? They kill Russian soldiers. Pretty discriminating. By the way the rule is worded, I need banned, any Ukrainian soldiers here need banned. Everyone needs banned because everyone, by virtue of being a citizen of wherever is member of a group that has discriminated. I can’t vote in Australian elections, so they are discriminating against non Australian citizens.

            Thought experiment. What if say, a kkk member is questioning their beliefs and genuinely curious about alternate viewpoints. Banning them just reinforces the idea that these “woke” people hate everyone that doesn’t agree with them.

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              You’re forgetting the part where it comes down to,

              and if you were provably vocal about your hate

              meaning, you are welcome to participate no matter who you are, unless you engage in hate speech against others. Hate speech which would be breaking our friendly atmosphere and disrupting other people’s experience.

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                you are welcome to participate no matter who you are, unless you engage in hate speech against others.

                Great. So the whole being a member of a group part can be removed then because hate speech is already covered.

                It sounds nitpicky, but it is very personal for me. I’ve seen good group/bad group mentality cause some rather monstrous behavior first hand. I realize there is a lot of nuance, but I really dislike any language like that.

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                  Thank you for all your suggestions, and I hope that you’re feeling better and living more peacefully now. We’ll take this into consideration and talk about it today, and i’ll be sure to let you know when & how it is addressed.