I like being a cuckold and I don’t understand the hate it gets.

  • It gets me off.
  • It gets my girlfriend off.
  • It makes it easier for other guys to get laid.
  • My girlfriend and I have more sex before and after a meetup because we’re both into it.
  • It doesn’t do anything detrimental to my self-esteem because I understand my self-worth isn’t tied to monogamous sex - plus if it did, my girlfriend and I could stop any time.

Everyone should be able to do what they want to do so long as they follow the basic concepts of enthusiastic consent. And when people follow that, I don’t understand the hate

  • Markimus@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I had to look up what cuckold is, though honestly you do you. “Cuckold” sounds kind of derogatory, kind of like the N word.

    As long as everyone on-board is consenting, I don’t see a problem.

    • DrPop@lemmy.one
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      1 year ago

      The reason people use it as an insult is probably because it feels good to say. It’s so close to fuck and you know how we feel about that word.

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      1 year ago

      If you decide to have kids, it puts a cloud over everyone whether the kid is legitimate.