ngl I may prefer lemm.ee, just saying

      • KDE@monyet.cc
        1·
        9 months ago

        db0 , i really like your server tbh but my monyet.cc is serving me currently well the fact that you have a photon , tensorrect etc as alternate frontends is kinda cool as well :p thanks man , we as a community appreciate your instance and its c/piracy -fellow pirate

  • blakeus12 [they/them, he/him]@hexbear.netEnglish
    1·
    9 months ago

    hexbear and lemmygrad are fantastic. makes me feel very welcome and safe as a queer person (i am bisexual) that the admins will always crack down on queerphobia in any form. very cool for our trans comrades as well! lemmy.ml is a close third place, many cool ppl on there especially comrade dessalines.

  • anothermember@beehaw.org
    1·
    9 months ago

    Beehaw is a quieter experience than most because it has narrower federation, but you do tend to get a better signal to noise ratio since you miss the spammier instances - I like it.

    Beehaw also doesn’t federate downvotes which I think is an improvement.

      • anothermember@beehaw.org
        1·
        9 months ago

        Posting from a Beehaw account I think does have a psychological effect on me that causes me to naturally tone things down a bit. I think it’s been good for me.

    • inverted_deflector@startrek.website
      0·
      9 months ago

      Yeah and in addition to that the overall “be(e) nice” rule means that people are generally just a lot more pleasant to be around and less abrasive than what I see in some of the other larger instances.

      Only issue is I recently opened another account because theyre leaving lemmy eventually and currently my posts dont federate and all my subscriptions are pending.

      • anothermember@beehaw.org
        1·
        9 months ago

        Only issue is I recently opened another account because theyre leaving lemmy eventually and currently my posts dont federate and all my subscriptions are pending.

        Nothing’s concrete yet. I have accounts on several instances for their various advantages, but Beehaw is what I’ve settled on as my main “default” for now. The Subscribe Pending is a bug, I don’t think it affects your posts federating so they’re separate issues if that’s the case.

  • JCPhoenix@beehaw.orgEnglish
    1·
    9 months ago

    I’m enjoying Beehaw. I really haven’t looked around at other instances that much, but it’s pretty chill here.

  • TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml
    02·
    9 months ago

    Yes.

    Also, nobody will ever defederate from Lemmy.ml, being the dev instance.

    Also, the best instance may not be the one that does least defederation. Those Nazi and pedo (they actually exist) instances need to be kept 10000 kilometres away from society. But the defederation must not be done any more than that. Law of diminishing returns starts from that point.