Yesterday my girlfriend sent me a message to tell me that she thinks we have to stop our relationship. Several reasons where said, but after 2 days of thinking I understand that yes, our relation was unsustainable.
Now I stoped crying and I’m waiting tomorrow, because we’ll see each other and explain what we have in our minds and hearts. I’m full of hope because I’m pretty sure I know what’s the problem, and I have the solutions for it.
Honestly I don’t really know why I’m writing here but you know it’s just good to write somewhere. I will update this post if things are going bad.

I wish everyone on Earth will one day find someone as much incredible as the girl I love. I wish love for all of you!

  • PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk
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    10 months ago

    Good luck my friend.

    Brace yourself for both situations though - if you’ve figured it out, then great - see if you can work on it and bring things back together.

    Be ready for something that will either completely blindside you or something you don’t even agree with though - I hope you’re right but there’s nothing worse than having your legs done at the last minute when you think you’ve got on top of things.

    You got this.

    e: /u/Tippon knows the score ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )

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      10 months ago

      But be prepared that you’ve figured out our and she still wants to end it.

      Often when someone has decided to end things they have already put in the effort they’re going to (even if that’s none) and they’re done trying.

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        10 months ago

        Yeah absolutely, thanks for the input.

        Ultimately - and I hate sounding like a Debbie Downer here - but the chances of this working out are slim… but hey, I’m an optimist and I wish OP the best!