I’ve heard it explained that “hey” used to be more of an urgent way to get someone’s attention, rather than a casual “hello” like it is now, so it sounded rude to some older folks.

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      11 months ago

      I’m sure you believe that, because anyone who doesn’t fit a certain mold should be ridiculed. F**k off with that logic.

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        11 months ago

        If they mold they refuse to fit is “being a decent human being” then yeah, they should be ridiculed.

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          11 months ago

          But see, that’s the thing. Who are you, or anyone else for that matter, to tell me or anyone else what being a decent human being is?

          If I say I don’t like trans people, that doesn’t make me a bad person, that makes me a person with their own, valid opinion. Or If I say I don’t give a damn what happens to them, that’s not being callous, that’s me, not giving a f**k about people I’ll never meet. I’m sorry but virtue signaling isn’t my thing.

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            11 months ago

            You not giving a damn about what happens to them literally does make you callous. You being a bigot literally does make you a bad person. For decent people this isn’t virtue signaling. Not all opinions are valid.

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              11 months ago

              If I say my opinion is valid, it is. I don’t need approval from strangers to make it so.

              Preach tolerance, yet are intolerant of anyone who doesn’t share your beliefs. GTFO with that nonsense.

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                11 months ago

                Its not nonsense. Its the way society works. You want to be a terrible person then expect to be treated like a terrible person. It’s like a person going around shooting people complaining that the police shot him in response.

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                  11 months ago

                  What’s nonsense is the criteria you think you can hold people to.

                  Disliking trans people doesn’t equate to being bigoted or a “terrible person”, and not having sympathy or empathy for people I am not particularly happy with, doesn’t make me callous, it makes me human.

                  You can spin it however you like, but that’s the reality.

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                    11 months ago

                    Look up the definition of callous. You already self identified as a bigot. There is no spin here. You are just a terrible person that thinks you’re entitled to be tolerated while you don’t tolerate others.