• Stoneykins [any]@mander.xyz
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    I’m not sure I really agree with your first point, I think finding a way to find allys in all leftists would be worth it, even if it has a dark history. Things can be better.

    But holy shit their reaction was intense. And the idea that their arguments were in defense of left unity was pretty silly… 99% of it was just “anarchists wrong and evil”, and there is wild amounts of sectarianism going on just within hexbear that I’m sure lent energy to this.

    I respect how you reacted under pressure. I really respect any admin of a website that can show that much restraint when dealing with personal attacks and people you explicitly disagree with.

    But yeah the lethality of leftist infighting is maybe a topic that deserves more delicate conversations than memes.

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        I was there, I can form my own opinions, thanks. It was hyperbole, but that was the general level of arguments being made.

        If you want left unity, it was a nonsensical way to behave. It was just more sectarianism. It does make sense as a way to behave if you just wanna argue… So thats what I assume the real intent was.

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          the meme being posted was “modern MLs are bloodthirsty monsters who will kill you if they ever get in power”

          When you view a group as evil, that view tends to result in double standards for behavior, which is what you’re doing.

          I’m probably going to dip because I’m too mad to be civil right now

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            Hi, if you read what I said I also did not like the meme originally posted. I’m just trying to be constructive about it instead of angey and loud.

            Edit: “angey” was a typo but it makes me laugh

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              They posted an inflammatory meme meant to stir shit up between folks that share 99% of the same values and should be working together instead of having slapfights on the internet about shit that happened 100 years ago under entirely different material conditions, and for the record I piled on against them too as did some of our other anarchist comrades because it was reddit tier brainrot. If someone post a meme similarly lazily and unfunnily making the same joke about “anarkiddies” we would remove it and chastise the poster.

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                What do you want me to say? Sorry I’m not as angey as your standards demand? That all that dogpiling and toxic behavior was chill and fine because of a fucky meme? I declare hexbear.net the sovereign leader of all of leftism, I’ll say whatever you want, just chill tf out

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                  I’m very chill, I was just pointing out why it seems like we are aggressive.

                  The removal of downvotes on our end mean people have to actually make the effort to tell you that you are wrong and why, and not just downvote and move on.

                  Trust me it is a much better system than downvotes, we have had a long time with developing policies to foster productive discussion.

                  When someone is so aggressively wrong or clearly posting troll bait, then of course they will perceive the pushback as aggressive as well.

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                    Yes I know about the downvote situation.

                    I lurk on hexbear often. I don’t usually comment because of… Well, this kinda shit, since it is hard to describe.

                    And I don’t need you to explain to me how you think I’m misunderstanding how aggressive you are. I can form my own opinions about how aggressive hexbear user behavior is.

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                    I’m very chill, I was just pointing out why it seems like we are aggressive.

                    I mean i am on hb since the start and criticism of anything ml was always met with aggression, not only if it was inflammatory. That1s why joeysteel was banned for starters.

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            the meme being posted was “modern MLs are bloodthirsty monsters who will kill you if they ever get in power”

            And y’all had a chance to prove the meme wrong by not turning it into a dick measuring contest with spamming equally shitty sectarian shit that on hexbear would get you kicked out (anarchists are worthless, anarchists can’t coordinate, etc.),. And it always ends like this. Anytime i mention that in the hungarian revolution the workers councils were a way more significant factor than any western influence and they literally set up groups to hunt nazis the same agresszive smug shit arrives from people who never read anything about the topic apart from the fucking Aptheker book. I feel like the ML userbase (who are right about basically anything when it comes to capitalism) would rather off themselves that even admit that any ml leader even marginally engaged in self-serving abuse of power. Of course anarchists who aren’t familiar with the site wont be happy.

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              And y’all had a chance to prove the meme wrong

              How many people did we shoot in the thread? Are you that easy to pander to?

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              I don’t know much about the Hungarian uprising. If the Soviet response was unjustified and draconian when they could have worked something out, that’s fucked up.

              Do you have any reading recommendations?

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                  All three are examples of ml leaders who took huge Ls abusing their power that nobody is afraid to criticize. I’m not familiar enough with the boiled baby guy to say whether he was actually an ml or if it was another pol pot situation.

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                    Gonzalo was a self-proclaimed Maoist, part of the reason we say ML-MZT and not MLM in English

                    If you want criticism of a self-proclaimed ML (and don’t count Pol Pot because that claim was not even paper thin), Khrushchev is someone we all hate who has slightly more of a claim to the title, though naturally I would argue that he is a revisionist.

                    If you want criticism of an actual ML, we criticize Stalin and Mao all the time, but usually not on “selfish abuse of power” terms because that generally isn’t what they did compared to simply being a bit reactionary or foolish (often right and left deviationism, respectively, though that is a slight stretch for the Four Pests case).

                    Naturally, if it is an ideology we believe in, then actions we disagree with are generally going to be outside of what we consider those principles to be.

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      Thanks for your kind words. I will admit I did get snappy towards the end of the day as I was getting tired and they had gone to straight up brigading tactics with half a dozen hexbears shitposting random replies, so there wasn’t even any point to reply anymore. It had just become a classic pile on situation because I hurt their feelings.

      I’m not sure I really agree with your first point, I think finding a way to find allys in all leftists would be worth it, even if it has a dark history. Things can be better.

      I’m not here to stop anyone. MLs can be allies when they act like anarchists, which they tend to do when they’re not in power. But you have to be cognizant who you’re getting in bed with.

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        Do you think that all ML’s harbor some innate desire to just start murdering anarchists for no particular reason when given the chance or something?

        This weird self-induced paranoia can’t be good for you.

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          No. I think that the praxis of MLs eventually leads to ice axes in heads “for the good of the revolution”. I believe you currently never would imagine you would make such an action. I also believe that your hierarchical states will inevitably lead to it

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            Ah, yes. I suppose Marxism-Leninism inevitably drives people to murder, just like Islam inevitably drives people to murder.

            All Marxist-Leninists are the same, just like all those swarthy Muslamics.

            That seems like a perfectly reasonable view of reality you’ve got there lmao

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                You’ve made it perfectly clear that you are not interested in a debate.

                Which means that we can all just throw out the most ridiculous claims possible without having to defend them.

                Funny how that works miyazaki-laugh

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                Let’s not pretend racism isn’t directly connected to shitting on the dominant ideology of non white or conditionally white leftists

                It took me calling the original meme racist over several hours before you edited it, and you should have noticed it in the first place. It incorrectly characterizes Mao, who was heavily influenced by anarchist thought. Integrating the good parts of anarchism into ML thought is kind of the thing he is known for, and to the extent he was successful is where a big portion of controversy around his theoretical contributions to socialism lie.

                Also literally read anything about Jewish intellectual traditions and how they relate to Marxism, God damn.

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            Galaxy-brain (not living up to his name) just implied that you “deserve” an ice axe in your head in a reply to your comment here, as a result of your recent posts calling them out for being violent tankies (proving you correct). Can we please defed? They’re just as bad as lemmygrad (who I came here to avoid) and last I checked you “didn’t think they were (all) tankies and would defed if they became a problem.” Can we at least admit they’re a problem now?

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        MLs can be allies when they act like anarchists

        Uh, sure, and Nazis can be allies if they act like communists. You ever wonder if the reason MLs keep shooting anarchists is because instead of trying to work together the anarchists just insist the MLs become anarchists?

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          You ever wonder if the reason MLs keep shooting anarchists…

          gasp he said the silent part out loud!

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            Hey, why don’t you engage with what I said? I’m sure you feel really smug for owning me, but you forgot to actually defend anarchists.

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      I think finding a way to find allys in all leftists would be worth it

      I am really fine working with all leftists when we go against nazis. When the goal is the same, the methods are the same or complement each other and they don’t try to take control of “my” space/group, I can work with MLs