I’ve always been a “lurker” on all platforms and communities because when I do have a question or would like to contribute my first thought has become:
Actually, let me google it first
In which case I’ll usually have some answer. Usually it isn’t a complete answer but enough for me to not want to share my question anymore.
Oh absolutely. But there should be some sort of filter with people. If someone asks “is that a chow in your pic?” it’s not intentionally offensive. They included a picture. A question is harmless if it’s just pure inquisition.