Oh no, I am woman cold in house, if only there were a cute catboy to keep me warm :3
she/they
Oh no, I am woman cold in house, if only there were a cute catboy to keep me warm :3
US try not to create horrible legal legacies challenge (impossible)
You deserve whatever will make you happy 🫂
This is the worst part of transitioning, it’s uphill from here, just keep moving ❤️
We have our first volunteer astronaut to Venus!
I don’t think deism has that potential
Here’s my hypothesis for why those people jump in here and yell “vote for Biden”: they hear loud people elsewhere say " Biden’s bad AND I’m not voting for him because of that" so when they here you say “Biden’s bad” they automatically assume you also won’t vote for him.
I found going ahead with the scary things I wanted to do very empowering, especially enforcing name/pronouns and who I am. It was awkward at first, but I’m getting used to it, and I don’t miss the little sting of the old ones constantly knocking down my self esteem.
More general advice: figure out what’s causing you to feel that way and change it. If it’s talking about certain things, try not to get into those conversations; it it’s hearing your deadname, try to get others to respect your name. Trying to be fine with the current situation when you’re not is a losing battle, and that doesn’t make you “weak” or any of that BS some people will say.
Also note, you can be doing all you can and it still takes a while for it to feel natural and easy, for you to be able to drop your guard and feel like you. I’m still going through that, but every month is an improvement as my comfort and confidence grows. Goof luck, Amber! ❤️
To those who need to hear it: you’re a handsome lad!
I admit, my vigor has waned a lot. I just hope it never reaches zero.
Started 2, I think 1 now
I’ll make sure to deliver mine to your mother
Be trans throw hands
I know it’s not about suburbs, it’s about privilege and distance from the bad
I’m 20% better than giraffes 😎
Not in the crotch though, the TSA will catch that!
I suspect autism is why I care because I did grow up in that suburb, so I’d expect me to be apathetic, but I’m not.
As an autistic person, I’ve had to logic my way through empathy, so I’m pretty good at moral reasoning and getting past factors that make problems seem more distant. I might not give the same emotional reaction as seeing it in person, but someone “becoming a statistic” still makes me feel a little bad. Now, I definitely don’t do as much as I really should, but I do at least care.
I wonder if allistic people, with their intuitive empathy, just never bother to push beyond their empathetic and moral intuition? Distancing strategies seem far too effective on them, and cognitive dissonance is great at promoting distancing strategies.
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