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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Not that people like this guy would ever actually hear this, but I love this bit from the article

    Despite the stereotype that trans and nonbinary people don’t know what gender they are, they usually have put more thought into their gender identities than cisgender people have and have explored that aspect of themselves to a greater degree. Many transgender people know they are men or women with as much or even more certainty than many cisgender people, and nonbinary people don’t have the problem of knowing “if” they’re men or women because they can be just as certain that they are neither.











  • Pick any facet of life at all… there will always be many people “ahead” and many people “behind” where you are. I’m not sure where you live, but at least in the US there is (IMHO) an unhealthy focus on social status competition within peer groups. Fuck that. Ask yourself if YOU personally are “ahead” or “behind” where you were yesterday, last year, etc. But even then please don’t beat yourself up… be patient and have compassion for yourself.