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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • Not necessarily. If you have a lot of experience or a different perspective and you seem trustworthy to me, you don’t need to have a good argument. On the other hand, if someone else comes along with a good argument why your opinion is wrong, I will start doubting you.

    For example, if you’ve been growing potatoes for 30 years, you don’t have to explain the biochemistry of potatoes for me to respect your advice. And if you’re a black person telling me that our town is terribly racist, I will believe you without needing a list of every single racist incident that happened to you.


  • They’re only down there for a very short time and they don’t have a lot of nitrogen stored in their lungs, so decompression sickness is usually not an issue. I think there have been a few cases, especially with repeated, very deep dives. But nothing you have to worry about as a normal hobby freediver.

    Passing out at the surface is quite common though, but not due to decompression sickness. It’s the lack of oxygen that can happen when you have learned to completely ignore your urge to breathe and then stay down for too long. The reason why you pass out at the surface and almost never at the bottom, is because the water pressure compresses the air in your lungs. At a depth of 10 meters (30 feet), four liters of air in your lungs are compressed down to two liters. This is basically “concentrated air”, which contains “concentrated oxygen”. If the air is compressed to half the volume, it’s like having twice as much oxygen in it. Then, as you ascend to the surface, the air in your lungs expands again, turning the concentrated oxygen into regular oxygen and then it’s just not enough anymore and you pass out.

    That’s why it’s recommended to always have someone with you who stays at at the surface and who can step in if you pass out, keeping your head above the water. It has never happened to me, but I’m really a beginner and I still have an urge to breathe that forces me to go back to the surface after a short while.



  • I think it also has a lot to do with the influence of patiarchy and toxic masculinity on the grieving person.

    If you managed to push back against some of society’s expectations on men, know how to express more emotions than “angry” and “horny” and have shown vulnerability in the past, people will find it much easier to approach you.

    On the other hand, if someone is working super hard to keep up their “manliness”, you may realize that they’re struggling, but you’ll have reservations about tearing down the crumbling facade they’re desparately trying to preserve.



  • I think one of the main problems is that there’s no “home” for people leaning left. The SPD has long dropped the “S” from it’s name, it’s just another conservative party representing those who are already well-off, without any ideas or plans to improve life for those who are exploited in our current system. Die Linke is completely detached from reality and too busy with fighting between themselves to address the giant issues that they should have the answers for. Greens are a climate/environment party first and they’re too elitist to pick up any of the angry people who (rightfully) feel like they’ve been cheated by the system.

    So when you have a well organized, populist party on the far-right that provides (wrong) answers for those people, it’s no wonder they flock to them. Of course, you’ll always have those who are actual fascists and will always vote for a fascist party, but a strong left could easily draw a lot of the other voters away from the AfD.





  • Noch lieber würde ich bei der Maklerprovision das Bestellerprinzip umgesetzt sehen. Die Grunderwerbssteuer geht zumindest theoretisch an die Allgemeinheit und dient irgendwie noch einem guten Zweck.

    Aber einem Makler, der mir als Käufer überhaupt keine Arbeit abnimmt sondern stattdessen versucht, den Preis möglichst in die Höhe zu treiben, zusätzlich noch zehntausende Euro in den Rachen zu werfen, widerstrebt mir echt extrem.

    Wenn ich einen Makler engagiere, der für mich eine Wohnung oder ein Haus sucht, dann muss ich den voll bezahlen. Was ja auch Sinn macht, schließlich will ich ja eine Dienstleistung haben.

    Wenn aber der Verkäufer einen Makler engagiert, der für ihn einen passenden Käufer findet, dann soll ich die Hälfte bezahlen, auch wenn ich nichts und wieder nichts davon habe. Die Logik erschließt sich mir überhaupt nicht.

    Und die Höhe der Provision ergibt für mich auch überhaupt keinen Sinn. Das ist je nach Immobilie für viele Deutsche ein Jahresgehalt, das da an den Makler geht. Und das ohne dass er für seinen Job eine einzigartige Qualifikation braucht oder er mit extremen Strapazen oder Risiken behaftet ist.


  • They’re awesome! Being 100% clean instead of 75-90% makes a world of difference. Plus, you can keep browsing Lemmy or even brush your teeth while the toilet cleans your butt.

    You still have to use toilet paper to pat yourself dry, but much less than before and you can buy the cheapest and scratchiest half-ply garbage, it doesn’t matter. There are also models with a built in blow dryer, but it takes ages, so I never use mine.

    Only downside is that I dread leaving home for more than a few days now. Using toilet paper feels so stupid and ineffective now.


  • I didn’t fully quit reddit, but I’m going to Lemmy first and foremost and rarely go back to reddit for very specific communities. My reddit usage dropped by 90+% probably, but I’m not completely gone.

    I’m sure the same is true for many other users as well, so simply counting the number of (active) users then and now won’t get even close to the actual loss in traffic and participation.