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  • My understanding is that these sorts of white collar crimes don’t normally result in jail time for defendants with no previous criminal record, in New York state courts.

    I get the feeling that the number of counts doesn’t really matter here, because they are not really unique crimes. My understanding is that they brought 34 charges because they had 34 documents they thought they could prove in court were fraudulent, but it is materialy the same crime (deliberately mischaracterizing the nature of the payment)












  • Based on what you wrote, sounds to me like she wants out.

    I think that a healthy long term relationship will require some compromise from both partners. Over the course of a lifetime there will be things that two people don’t agree on, sometimes very strongly. Being able to talk through those issues and work out an appropriate compromise is crucial to the longevity of the relationship.

    If she’s insistant that the shorts of issues you’ve described are deal breakers for her I think there are a few possible reasons:

    • She wants out of the relationship and is using these issues as an excuse
    • she’s not really ready for a longterm, serious relationship
    • The issues are more serious than you’ve described and she’s not explaining her complaints in a way that makes clear to you what is really wrong