Lemur

It is never easy to lose a family member. You were lucky to have each other.

Crispin Glover. No doubt.

This is excellent advice. People need to note it down.

OP, you say no one in college would remember you. What about a professor or TA? I kept grades for years on my students just for this reason. Even if I didn’t remember specifics about someone, I could comment on their performance.