• yetiftw@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    in that case you may have some unrealized homophobia, causing you to not view queer interactions as fully valid compared to straight interactions

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      6 months ago

      lol what? Not sure what you read but I said I had no problem with my girlfriend with other girls.

      Furthermore I’ve hung out with tons of gay people. My brother was gay (died of fentanyl). Zero issues with whatever people want to do in their bedroom. None of my business anyway.

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        6 months ago

        I think they mean some guys don’t consider 2 women having sex to be “real sex” so they don’t think it’s cheating.

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          6 months ago

          Oh, im really not that deep. I don’t spend much time worrying about what others are doing for sex or intimacy.

          Some other user said it’s probably because I can’t compare myself to a girl, unlike another man, which is probably true.

          Appreciate you explaining what they probably meant by that comment as I was extremely confused