• GBU_28@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    Expressing a personal opinion here: anything but truly balanced and open poly just seems like cheating with extra steps, queer or not.

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      8 months ago

      I think it’s reasonable to have different styles of poly relationships to meet different needs and desires without it constituting cheating - but it requires a level of transparency, honesty, and self-awareness that most people are incapable of.