I have three with one on the way. It’s a constant struggle to keep the place livable. Before I had children I was not a neat person and kept things livable by not doing things that made mess and staying out as much as possible. Can’t do that with kids, so what’s the trick?
That’s a pretty solid list.
We’re firm on the “food stays in the dining room” thing. We also have toy free zones in the kitchen, dining room, and living room.