I like being a cuckold and I don’t understand the hate it gets.
- It gets me off.
- It gets my girlfriend off.
- It makes it easier for other guys to get laid.
- My girlfriend and I have more sex before and after a meetup because we’re both into it.
- It doesn’t do anything detrimental to my self-esteem because I understand my self-worth isn’t tied to monogamous sex - plus if it did, my girlfriend and I could stop any time.
Everyone should be able to do what they want to do so long as they follow the basic concepts of enthusiastic consent. And when people follow that, I don’t understand the hate
The idea or fantasy of it can be fun. The question is, once the semen is drying on your wife’s face and you go to kiss her again are you going to be able to handle it? Once the excitement has worn off and you’ve lived out your fantasy and had your “post-nut clarity” are you still cool with it?
If so, great! This is the best part of consenting adults having a good time.
But sometimes our fantasies don’t co-exist well with our reality. You may end up with trust issues or jealousy or feel that you made a mistake and all you’ve done is risk your entire relationship on it. I mean, there’s a joke in a Seinfeld episode where they’re enjoying discussing the fantasy of a threesome but when it comes right down to it, Jerry is like “I’m not an orgy guy!”
However, if you and your wife genuinely enjoy, are comfortable with, and continue to get off on cuck sex, I don’t see a problem.
This is the correct take. self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-honesty are key components to contentment in any facet of life. I often fantasize about eating cookies and ice cream every morning but I know I would be unhealthy and feel like ass. I’ll bet you though that there is a very small subset of people though who genuinely have biology compatible with eating a few tablespoons of ice cream for breakfast.