• stebo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    11 months ago

    Okay but why would we all take the money? Because we want to be rich? Or because we need to be rich in order to live a comfortable life?

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      11 months ago

      Because it makes us feel safe, and it makes us feel like we’ll be happy.

      I have a Master’s in Psychology, and I will always remember the disheartening feeling when I learned the most prevalent and accepted theory of what defines human happiness. Know what it is?

      Comparison to others.

      Very literally, the person in the tribe with the biggest mud hut is probably happier than you in your Chevrolet when your neighbor pulls up in a Cadillac.

      Yes, we really are that small as a rule.

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        11 months ago

        Is that what makes us the most happy, or is it where we most often seek happiness? I don’t think they are the same thing. You aren’t going to find the happiest people in the world living in poverty, but I don’t think they are billionaires either.

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        11 months ago

        What do you mean by the person in the tribe? Are you talking about a hypothetical tribal society and their happiness when removed from the civilized world as opposed to people in more modern communities?

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          Yes. A hypothetical tribe. I’m saying happiness is completely relative, but based on comparison to immediate peers.

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            11 months ago

            And what can we do with this information, in psychology? Is there a way to shift focus away from it? Or is there something else to learn?