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    Women should just say what they like during the act and not Xeet about it afterwards when the sex wasn’t to their satisfaction.

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        You’re missing at least one asterisk: There should be some consideration for her partner’s privacy.

        I don’t think I’m the only man that has observed more than one partner behaving as if she’d rather have bad sex then gossip about it than tell me what she likes and then have good sex. Just…not react at all to questions like “what do you like? Does that feel good? What do you want to do tonight?” She’ll address the United Nations with an ordered list of her recent sexual disappointments, but she won’t say “do me like this” to her partner’s face.

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      the fuck is xeet? It’s twitter, none of the tweets have the url based on x.com

      EDIT : you gotta keep deadnaming the transphobe’s media platform. If he wants it to be called something else, fix up all them URLs and sell the twitter URL to someone else champ

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        EDIT : you gotta keep deadnaming the transphobe’s media platform.

        I LOL’d

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      Men should get consent before doing weird shit to vaginas. You shouldn’t be required to give an inventory like "37. Please do not shit between two pieces of bread and eat the shit sandwich during intercourse, I don’t like that. 38. "

      Tweets like this are mostly for fun, but if they are prompted by actual events, then I am sure they were prompted by someone trying it without asking first.

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    There usually is not that much room in a vagina to slap, slapping the labia or vulva in general is possible.

    Edit: Potato salad rulz

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      Why can’t we just use vagina to describe all that in casual conversation? It’s not like there is a better word. Everyone knows what you mean when you say it.

      “He punched me in the dick.” Could mean just about anywhere on the dick, I’m not going to say someone punched me on the glans or the shaft or whatever.

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          If I slap a woman that way I would be hitting a variety of parts of her body. When you say vagina everyone knows what you mean, it is already part of the common lexicon to use the word in this manner, most people are simply annoyed by this type of pedancy. So, unless I need to give a small biology lesson when doing something slightly kinky to, or about, a sex organ, I am just gonna say vagina, or some other euphemism. Box, vag, pussy, etc.

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            Eh. As someone who knows the vagina as the canal part, I’d expect that slapping it is a bit on the kinky side and involves toys.

            Slapping the vulva is a more common thing and doesn’t require toys (unless you really need the rider’s crop sting).

            In a general sense yes when a woman refers to her vag it can be slang for the whole kit and kaboodle. But then getting technical can be confusing. Mind you, I freak out when my recipe books have conflicts between their written instructions and illustrations. So it may just be me.

            Pussy wasn’t great as a colloquialism even before Trump ruined it. Though now I think of feminist punk rock and art like Pussy Riot and Hole.

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              People can call it whatever they like as long as everyone involved is cool with it. Refer to it as a penis, fine by me. I am just saying that this is a very, very, casual conversation and use of the word. Those actively concerning themselves with others using a word in a non-technical manner are just mildly annoying pedants. Pedants who likely use a word in a lay person’s manner, that is technically incorrect according to a professional or academic lexicon, probably without even realizing it.

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        There is a word for that, it’s pussy. Vagina doesn’t really work to describe the whole system.

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          I’m fine with the word and thrilled with the thing itself, but a lot of people consider “pussy” a cuss or swear in the same manner that “dick” is. Is there a less provocative word you think covers all the bases?

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        There is a difference in sensation when slapping (not punching) different genital parts.

        Vagina is not the name for the whole genital - calling the genital only after the part one is interested in is depersonalising, because the clitoris for example is just as important and because there’s a whole person with needs and desires attached to that vulva, vagina or clitoris etc.

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          Depersonalizing? What? Because I didn’t treat your genitals like a medical textbook?

          I understand frustration that men and many women don’t understand genital anatomy of women, but acting OFFENDED about it is just stupid. Educate, fine, but this is not some sort of affront to women.

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      i love that everyone is taking this so serious people start fighting about it

      also, i do not like potato, salad or rules.