• Alto@kbin.social
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      10 months ago

      Should be, and usually is, but if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship you may not expect it. Especially if you’ve been in an unhealthy relationship.

      • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
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        10 months ago

        I remember my husband-then-boyfriend being super happy he could just ask me to do stuff and I’d do it. I mean, yeah, of course, that’s how relationships work?

        Took me a long time to figure out that for most of his previous relationship, that really wasn’t so obvious.

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        10 months ago

        I’m grateful for anything I get, but honestly this year all I could think in my head with every gift I received was “do you guys even know me?”