• Alto@kbin.social
      31·
      10 months ago

      Should be, and usually is, but if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship you may not expect it. Especially if you’ve been in an unhealthy relationship.

      • Tar_Alcaran@sh.itjust.works
        12·
        10 months ago

        I remember my husband-then-boyfriend being super happy he could just ask me to do stuff and I’d do it. I mean, yeah, of course, that’s how relationships work?

        Took me a long time to figure out that for most of his previous relationship, that really wasn’t so obvious.

      • JokeDeity@lemm.ee
        5·
        10 months ago

        I’m grateful for anything I get, but honestly this year all I could think in my head with every gift I received was “do you guys even know me?”

        • Feidry@lemmy.world
          8·
          10 months ago

          I met my fiancee on Hinge and Tinder. We matched on both at the same time. Hinge is probably the better one if you’re looking for something serious but play the field, whatever your attention span will allow for.

          Bumble is also a decent one. It has, or at least used to have? I’ve not used it in almost 2 years, a “unique” feature where the woman messages first. Though that usually just ends up being a “Hi” or something even less conversation-starting.

          Really depends on what you’re looking for, I guess.

        • Dfy@lemm.ee
          3·
          10 months ago

          Indeed hinge is probably good if it is used where you live. I had my luck multiple times with bumble, only met serious girls. However you attract depending on how you build your profile, and it took time to get a good one for me