Seagoon_@aussie.zone to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 10 months agoDaily Discussion Thread: Sun 07 Jan 2024message-squaremessage-square124fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareDaily Discussion Thread: Sun 07 Jan 2024Seagoon_@aussie.zone to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 10 months agomessage-square124fedilink
minus-squarefullkitwanker@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·edit-210 months agoWhat’s > 0? She’s been replying like once every 12-15 hrs anyway. I’ll probably give up if I don’t hear back tonight. 💁♂️ Is it worth texting one more time or just let it be?
minus-squarebull⚡@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·10 months agoThe ball is in her court, which is very apt
minus-squarewscholermann@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up4·edit-210 months ago“> 0” means greater than 0. Meaning if she was interested she would have replied with at least something. As for the previous frequency, this only proves my point even more. Now that you are trying to make this “real” it’s radio silence. Personally I would do nothing. You’ve put the ball in her court and she’s not returning the serve it seems (yes I made a tennis pun). I personally wouldn’t text her if it was me at this point. It’s not worth your dignity.
minus-squarePilk@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoDon’t give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport… she wasn’t talking to you for no reason. Be prepared for it to be a sign she’s not interest. But there’s no reason to jump to conclusions yet.
minus-squarefullkitwanker@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoYeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?
minus-squareGibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up2·10 months agoDon’t message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.
minus-squarefullkitwanker@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·10 months agoYeah, that’s what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk’s comment.
What’s > 0? She’s been replying like once every 12-15 hrs anyway. I’ll probably give up if I don’t hear back tonight. 💁♂️
Is it worth texting one more time or just let it be?
The ball is in her court, which is very apt
“> 0” means greater than 0. Meaning if she was interested she would have replied with at least something.
As for the previous frequency, this only proves my point even more. Now that you are trying to make this “real” it’s radio silence.
Personally I would do nothing. You’ve put the ball in her court and she’s not returning the serve it seems (yes I made a tennis pun).
I personally wouldn’t text her if it was me at this point. It’s not worth your dignity.
Don’t give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport… she wasn’t talking to you for no reason.
Be prepared for it to be a sign she’s not interest. But there’s no reason to jump to conclusions yet.
Yeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?
Don’t message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.
Yeah, that’s what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk’s comment.