@tess @Nath @Zagorath
I have the impression that ‘white cishet men’ comparing themselves to ‘rich hot white cishet men’ is not the standard, but mostly something that happens in the pick-up artist scene.

Most poor white cishet men seem to think more along the lines of ‘how tf am I priviliged compared to someone like Rishi Sunak??’. They point at the successful women they know, at the successful black people. Their white privilege can’t be all that powerful if these people seem to thrive.