This post is inspired by a recent user I interacted with accusing me of being transphobic due to disagreeing with the concept of “xenogenders”

Without going too in depth, this user identified as “swarmgender”, and believed they are part of a literal hive mind. This led me down a path of reflection, wanting to be accepting of someones identity while trying to understand it rationally, and I came to a pretty firm conclusion:

They’re fucking nuts.

I’m not saying this in a transphobic sense, there is nothing wrong with being trans. (Original statement: But the medical terminology for what’s being experienced is gender dysphoria. It’s a mental illness.) It was pointed out to me by a commenter that this statement is inaccurate as of the updated DSM-5 definition, which sorta complicates my view here but doesn’t subtract from the overall point.

It’s important to acknowledge this because there’s a bit of a slippery slope going on where individuals with more severe mental issues are using gender politics to either

A: make themselves the bestest most specialist snowflake

Or

B: Obfuscate how fucking insane they actually are under the guise of anyone disagreeing being transphobic.

Anyway, this thread’ll be fun

Edit: the aforementioned Swarmgender joker has started posting about people in this thread on their own little community dedicated to how much of a victim they are lol

  • discostjohn@programming.dev
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    1 year ago

    I just don’t understand why the especially weird stuff like “swarm” or “elf” has to be part of their… gender?

    I’ve seen someone reference pyrogender, the gender that feels like fire, but certainly that would fall under some other parameter besides gender, right? Maybe ethnicity or species or something, but certainly not gender lol

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      There’s attention seeking behavior on the internet, and then there’s clinically diagnosable gender dysphoria. The prior is more likely narcissism run amok. The second can boil down to a difference in the proprioceptive map of the body in the brain and the actual body it inhabits. As far as gender dysphoria goes, it’s far easier to “fix” the physical form than it is to rewire the brain. We have tried both. The second option is torture at best, as exemplified by the suicide rates.

      Saying this as a gay person.

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      1 year ago

      That’s kinda what I’m getting at- it doesn’t have anything to do with gender. Gender politics is being shoehorned in as a socially acceptable way to force people to validate a delusional belief, whatever that may be.

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        1 year ago

        Gender politics is being shoehorned in as a socially acceptable way to force people to validate a delusional belief, whatever that may be.

        Religion is being shoehorned into politics as a socially acceptable way to force people to validate a delusional belief.

        Fun Fact: The existence of Two Spirited individuals is much, much older than Christianity.