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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/IcyReplacement2707 on 2023-07-19 12:41:06.

1 (16f) went prom dress shopping with my Nan(54f) and my Mum (35f). I found a lovely dress and my Mum and Nan both payed half each for the dress. As I was getting ready on my prom night, my Nan starts saying how she ‘would love to try it on at the weekend’ and ‘she loves it so much’ I ignore her and get ready for my prom. I have a lovely time and had forgotten about her comment. Two days after she said “can I wear your prom dress” and I flat out said “No”. She then goes on a rant about how ‘she paid half for the dress therefore she gets to wear it’ and won’t let up. I feel guilty for insisting on her never wearing it but I also think that it’s very clearly MY dress and I don’t want her to wear it. So, Reddit, Am I The Asshole? Xxx

Edit for information: She wants to wear it out to a party.

Edit: Thank you all. I’m glad I’m not being unreasonable. Xxx