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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/sblake1983 on 2023-07-18 23:09:34.

I (32F) was visiting my sister (34F) and her husband (39M) and their four kids: Abby(11F) Lance (10M) David (9M) Kelly (7F).

I should give some background on the way my sisters family works. They are pretty extreme fundamentalists. She is a stay at home mom and he has normal 9 to 5. It is a very male dominated and patriarchal lifestyle and I try to respect that when I was visit (try being the operative word). She had made a singular homemade pizza for dinner which is around the size of a dominoes Large. I opted not to eat, because even though she’s a stay at home mom, she is really not the best cook and I wanted the kids to have enough. She proceeded to serve her husband first with 4 pieces of pizza, then she gave each of her children a small single slice of pizza. They were not allowed seconds, because obviously there were none.

Seeing this I offered to drive into town and get them more food to which my sister replied they didn’t need it… context, she went to each child’s plate and nibbled off some bits of their pizza for herself. I was obviously livid and said “ I don’t understand why your husband gets half a pizza and your children have to share the other half and why are you didn’t make more?!”

She responded that she didn’t have time, which was a lie because I was there the entire day and could’ve helped her.

So I decided to get in my car and bought all the kids wendys and frostys, and I didn’t bring any for her husband. This made my sister very angry and she implied that I was an asshole and that I was trying to cause trouble for her.

So AITA here??