A drunk person not taking the obvious non verbal hints could easily get out of hand if put in such a confrontational situation where it would be hard for them to save face.
If you’re talking to that much of a socially inept drunk asshole, wouldn’t they be the type to probably confront you and your excuse providing friend also? What’s the difference from just making up your own excuse to walk away and go to the bathroom?
I’m not trying to shoot this down, but any normal person can say hey I’m dealing with something and not interested in this conversation right now without being an asshole about it. It’s really socially manipulative to not do so and sort of sociopathic if you don’t know how to tell a person youre not looking to be bothered without a whole team of first responders.
Now if they’re clearly over the top drunk, then yes get the bouncers involved.
If you think this is reality i dont think your old enough
To go the places where the very normal logic you described is clearly not reality.
Most people around you are chill and sensible but
Some are absolutely not and very dangerous, depending where you live dangerous people can be a daily occurrence, even on your way to work.
A drunk person not taking the obvious non verbal hints could easily get out of hand if put in such a confrontational situation where it would be hard for them to save face.
If you’re talking to that much of a socially inept drunk asshole, wouldn’t they be the type to probably confront you and your excuse providing friend also? What’s the difference from just making up your own excuse to walk away and go to the bathroom?
I’m not trying to shoot this down, but any normal person can say hey I’m dealing with something and not interested in this conversation right now without being an asshole about it. It’s really socially manipulative to not do so and sort of sociopathic if you don’t know how to tell a person youre not looking to be bothered without a whole team of first responders.
Now if they’re clearly over the top drunk, then yes get the bouncers involved.
If you think this is reality i dont think your old enough To go the places where the very normal logic you described is clearly not reality.
Most people around you are chill and sensible but Some are absolutely not and very dangerous, depending where you live dangerous people can be a daily occurrence, even on your way to work.