Actually, he is in a one-sided relationship. obsessively, he thinks about that girl and gets depressed. Any suggestions to help him?
Actually, he is in a one-sided relationship. obsessively, he thinks about that girl and gets depressed. Any suggestions to help him?
Does the girl know they in a relationship?
Or is he fantasying about a relationship that does not actually exist and then getting upset when reality intrudes on that fantasy?
The girl doesn’t know about the relationship.
He is getting upset when reality hits the door of fantasy or when looking at the chat history he previously chatted with her.
Then there is no relationship!
He needs to either bite the bullet and ask her for a relationship and be prepared for what ever answer she gives. Though I assume he already knows what the answer will be and prefers to live with the fantasy than accept the actual rejection.
Or he will be stuck in the same loop fantasy…despair…fantasy…etc.
This is easy for me to say but I know it is not easy for someone in this position to accept.
I will try to convince him not to live in a fantasy world and just propose to her. Thank you.
Propose is a little extreme, no?
I talked to him about this. And he says he has also thought about proposing.
Dude, no.
Film him while proposing. Then he can say it was just a prank.
It is for the best.
The other possibility is that she is waiting for him to ask but if he waits for too long she will think he is not actually interested and will move on.