The “intentions” (whatever this esoteric word means) of other people are never clear. And people might fool themselves by claiming that they know otherwise, but they don’t.
In other words: OP is asking a question, treat it as such, instead of assuming too much out of it.
At the time I answered, he had only gotten a few negative responses from people and a lot of downvotes, and I genuinely didn’t know where to approach the question from.
Informing him that his question was unclear in a neutral tone was a genuine attempt at being helpful.
You are reading a lot more judgement from my comment than I think is appropriate.
I wasn’t highlighting any sort of judgment from your part, I was highlighting the fact that we [people] don’t really know each others’ intentions. As such, it’s simply easier to see OP’s question by what it is, without digging too deeper on it.
It is not clear what you are intending to ask.
The “intentions” (whatever this esoteric word means) of other people are never clear. And people might fool themselves by claiming that they know otherwise, but they don’t.
In other words: OP is asking a question, treat it as such, instead of assuming too much out of it.
At the time I answered, he had only gotten a few negative responses from people and a lot of downvotes, and I genuinely didn’t know where to approach the question from.
Informing him that his question was unclear in a neutral tone was a genuine attempt at being helpful.
You are reading a lot more judgement from my comment than I think is appropriate.
My own comment sounded rude. Sorry for that.
I wasn’t highlighting any sort of judgment from your part, I was highlighting the fact that we [people] don’t really know each others’ intentions. As such, it’s simply easier to see OP’s question by what it is, without digging too deeper on it.
I see! I do appreciate you pushing for more understanding. :) Op didn’t need all the negativity from people.