I’ve been hooking up with a girl i knew from my high school years for the past month now. She has no job and she lives at home with her parents. She hasn’t had a job since she got fired from her last job at a clothing store (about 8 months ago). I can’t say I’m in love although we do say i love you to each other. She kind of brought up the idea yesterday after we had sex. Not going to lie I’m a little scared. What should i do? Do i break up with her? Should i make an ultimatum that if she wants to move in with me she needs to get a job first? Edit: she wants to move into my apartment
Are you a moron? Run. Burn all of your social media accounts and ghost her. Stop hooking up. It’s gross.
If you ever plan to have a respectable wife and children you love. If you have the slightest desire to actually be a good father and not a sperm donor, start by respecting yourself and not caving in to ever animal lust that rises in your loins.
Love your future wife and children now, quit sticking your dick in everything.
STOP having sex with her because as soon as you try and break it off she will become ‘pregnant’ and it will of course be yours. She will have to move in then and will love bomb you till she does get pregnant.
And then, just like that, she will hardly ever have sex with you, but you will have to pay for that baby. You will have to take care of her AND the baby.
If you can’t control your lust, you’re not ready for a relationship. Get yourself under control, ditch her fast.