• lath@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Technically. I don’t like other people getting all up in my business. So while it is part me not wanting to be mocked, it is also way more me not wanting them be excited and trying to join.

    Having to deal with people positively means adjusting both your paces to work together. You can’t do what you want and when you want, you gotta coordinate. And that’s a pain in the ass.

    I get no leisure from having to include someone else’s feelings in my personal enjoyment.

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      4 months ago

      I used to think that way. Then I realized that in order for me to enjoy something I need to have someone to share it with.

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        4 months ago

        And I used to think your way, but the “pain in the ass” feeling won in the end.