She’s fully presenting as female. The clothes, the make-up, the hair, the style of glasses, the style of bag, the style of jewellery.
Anyone calling her “sir” is specifically trying to be an asshole, or the clips are faked.
Edit: Looks like this account just posts videos from the same YouTube channel. It also looks like that YouTube channel might just upload other people’s footage.
In California there’s a lot of people that look like her whether they be biologically male or female and say their pronouns are he/him, so how are servers expected to juggle the different preferences without ever making a mistake?
When in doubt, just don’t use pronouns or any terms referring to gender. Using the word “you” is pretty safe, especially when there is only one person at the table. When the server is talking to back of house, they generally refer to people by table. The cooks don’t know or care who’s actually eating the food, they just know the ticket/table number.
By using you or that person there.
Also fuck you
I was a server, and this was never a problem and isn’t even a potential problem. I can’t even think of a time when I had to use someone’s third-person pronouns. You’re trying to create outrage over a problem that only exists inside the minds of bigots.
Servers don’t get Paid Enough for This
Treating customers respectfully is part of the job description.
Servers don’t get paid enough
That part is true though
